Body image

I shake my head every time someone in my mothers group posts that they are upset because they have gained 2kg or because their clothes don’t fit anymore. Frankly I think its terrible that we care so much about the way that we look that we forget that we are growing a human! You are not getting fat, you are not ugly, you are a pregnant mummy who has a human being growing inside of you and it needs space to grow. So yes you will expand and as baby grows you will gain weight! This should be a happy time and experience. But because society has us so focused on how much we weigh and what size we are many women just see themselves getting bigger and feel like failures. Frankly for the next 12months you really just have to let all diets and fitness go. Sure eat healthy and keep up some light exercise if you feel up to it but those marathon trips to the gym and days where you eat nothing but salad are gone until after baby is born and your body has recovered.

before and after pregnancy photo Foods For Post Baby Weight loss health

Click for article

Most women will gain 10-20kg by the time bub is born. This isn’t necessarily fat! This is another human being growing heavier. Its like picking up your dog and stepping on the scales then being upset because you weigh more, well yes of course you do!

The best advice I can give is to just not step on the scales or look in a mirror. Seriously. You can live without both they aren’t essential to our survival haha Eat what you crave as this is what your body needs to maintain your own and bubs health. Love your growing bump and relish in the knowledge that it will be gone in 9months. Frankly the easiest weight you will ever lose!

Then when bub is born you will need to focus on them and believe me you will not have time to eat or worry about any of that. Take bub for walks, breastfeed and snack on fruit. The weight will come off. No your stomach wont be flat but your ab muscles and uterus need time to shrink and knit back together. Give it 3months before hitting the gym again. Give your body time to get back to its regular shape and all your organs time to shuffle back into place. Trust me no one is looking at your belly when you are holding a new born and thinking you are just being lazy.

If it helps write yourself a reminder of one week worth of ‘normal’ eating. What you ate before bub. Then when you are ready to get back to normal use this as a meal plan. It can be hard after a year to remember how you used to eat so this will remind you.

A lot of people look at celebrities and see them lose 20kg in a month after bub. Its not possible! They have nannies, personal trainers and spanx! Its an optical illusion. They still have flabby bits they are just covering them really well. And no, you may never fit into a size 6 again because your waist has stretched for bub and just cant fit back in anymore. Look at pictures of Miranda Kurr before and after. You will see clearly that her waist is thicker despite her six pack.

So please ladies, love the changes and stop focusing on the numbers.

Advertisements

3 thoughts on “Body image

  1. I completely agree! The media sets up really false expectations for people. I know women who expected to wear their prepregnancy jeans home from the hospital. I was really proud of Kate for coming out showing that after you have a baby you still look pregnant. I have had a singleton (almost 9.5lbs) and twins (7.5lbs and 6lbs). The first time I was obsessed about losing the weight and dieted like crazy and the second time I just focused on eating well and being healthy and you know what? The weight came off at almost the same rate. I love your pics as well, I wish I had some cool ones like that, but I never found the time! While I lost the weight, by belly is still messed up but I posted the pics on my site so people can see “my stripes”. If you want to check it out http://gameofdiapers.com/2013/12/11/wordless-wednesday-10-month-postpartum-twin-belly-pics Happy New Year!

      • Oh sorry, my mistake. It’s funny how almost all my belly pics are in the washroom at work because that would be the only time I had to snap a pic (when I was in there peeing 300 times a day lol). Ah well, it’s all in the old noggin. Cheers

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s